What Are The Qualities Of Real Manhood?

What Are The Qualities Of Real Manhood?

1. Men Take Full Responsibility For Their Decisions  

A man understands that he is always the only one who is in charge of his life, and he has a responsibility to those who follow his leadership. Whenever he makes a decision in life he understands that he will get the glory or bear the failure of that decision without blaming others for his misstep. 

He always takes direct responsibility for his decisions and then makes the necessary adjustments to get back on track if his plans fail, because he knows that failure is still a step towards success. A man doesn't blame others, God or life for the things that come into his life. 

He simply takes accountability for where he is now and doesn't get down or beat himself up for making a bad decision. He looks at mistakes as missteps and understands that he can always take a new step in the right direction today. He recognizes that mistakes are a part of life and a critical part of learning. 

A man then looks back at his decisions and evaluates if the consequences he faces are the result of his past decisions or not. If so he learns from the cause and effect of the choices based upon how they led him to where he is today and makes different present choices in his life. 

2. Men Put Their Purpose First Over Romance

A man knows that he must commit to a purpose greater than satisfying the needs of a few people. His purpose is to be of service to the world as well as his family. His family and his romantic relationship is very important in his life and is to always be protected and nurtured but so is his purpose in life. 

A man knows that when he puts off his responsibility to be a force of change in the world he becomes less than a man. Why? Because a man without a positive purpose and direction in his life will always find himself lost in the world as a slave to his fleshly desires of sex, drugs, alcohol, violence and destruction. 

Life will always test a man with temptations to see if he is willing to put his loyalty to others over his loyalty to his purpose. But a man’s greatest reward in life is to live with integrity, honesty and a commitment to a purpose greater than himself or a few people. 

3. Men Aren’t Afraid Of Failure 

A man is willing to make the mistakes that bring him closer to success. He understands that losing is an essential part of winning. And those that never risk loss, never experience feel the exhilarating feelings of a win. Losses that are overcome by a man not only makes the man mentally stronger but gives him the tools he needs to confidently move in the direction of his dreams with courage and vigor. 

A man’s ability to trust himself is one of his greatest assets. When he second guesses himself by worrying about failure, he diminishes himself and his inner confidence. An intelligent man considers the thoughts of failure, but he doesn’t preoccupy himself with non beneficial worries. He accepts that if failure comes, he can deal with it and use it for his growth. 

A man grows more from his failures than he does from his successes, because success cannot test his strength in the way that failure can. Success has its challenges, but a man learns more about himself when he takes on challenges that involve risk. When a man plays things safe, his vitality is lost and he loses his courage to move himself into higher levels of thinking, courage and confidence. 

4. Men Are Confident 

A man speaks and acts with confidence. Even when the odds are against him, he still exudes confidence. This isn’t because he’s arrogant or cocky, he is simply strong enough to overcome self doubt. He uses his self talk to build his courage because he won’t allow himself to surrender under fear. This establishes in him the habit of facing fear head on instead of avoiding it. 

A man's confidence is established by facing his adversities. Not by avoiding them, blaming others or by making excuses. Confidence is a form of self courage. And courage is the ability to face fear head on. He accepts himself for who he is and works daily on his imperfections to build an even better and more confident version of himself than he was before. 

5. A Man Expresses His Love Freely

A man understands that the act of showing love or kindness isn’t weakness, it’s his strength. A man is an active giver and receiver of love, instead of a passive receiver of love. This means that he is the first to initiate conversation, the first to ask for what’s needed and the first to say I love you. The ability to show love isn't a weakness, it's actually a strength. 

Why? Because it shows that the man doesn't fear rejection of his acts of love. He shows love and understands that it may not always be accepted. If those he shows love to doesn't accept his love he doesn't get angry or resentful, he just sows his love in places that he feels good giving. 

It is a man’s duty to share his love with the world. He must allow the energy of love to flow through him and then into the world. When a man has assumed his role as the first to give, he is now living as his true and highest energetic self. 

6. A Man Can Re-channel His Sexual Energy 

This doesn’t mean that he hides his sexuality, a man embraces all sides of him as his true self. A man makes no apologies for the nature that comes along with his masculinity. But he has learned to be very careful not to allow his energy to get stuck in lust or vanity. These emotions will take away from his energy and distract him from his greater purpose in the world which is to create. 

If he is only focused on sex and women he is easily distracted from his vision and his purpose and he will find himself easily taken advantage by women who are not worthy of his sexual energy. This doesn't mean that he doesn't enjoy the act of sex, but he understand that everything has a time and a place. 

When his sexual energy rises he re-channels this energy into his heart and his head where it serves his higher values instead of his animal nature to reproduce. He does this by visualizing his energy rising, expanding and flowing his blood back to his whole body instead of only at his sexual organs. He uses this energy to spur him into action towards his heart centered pursuits which benefits him and those who follow him greatly. 

7. A Man Faces His Fears Head On

In the mind of a man, anything he fears makes him a slave to that which he fears. A man’s fear will always be tested. So when he hides from his fears and refuses to face them head on he weakens himself and falls out of alignment with his true self. This makes a man become weak, hopeless and destructive to himself and others because he is looking to avoid his fears. 

Regardless of how much he tries to comfort himself and achieve peace of mind, he dies the thousand deaths of his imagined fears that he has refused to face. Only when a man faces his fears, does he find peace of mind and peace in his emotions. He doesn’t run from these tests of fear, he turns towards them boldly with strength and courage until his fears bow to him. 

If the man succeeds or fails, he has overcome the fears of the cowardly men who stay enslaved by these same fears daily. When a man learns to face his fears right away without too much thought, he finds out that his fears were much less powerful than he perceived. This strengthens his courage and self esteem and now he feels even more like a man. 

8. A Man Can Honor Other Men

When a man encounters another strong man he doesn’t resort to jealousy and inferiority. He learns that this man has something to add to his life as he also has something to add to the other mans life. The phrase iron sharpens iron means that if we are both sharp, we sharpen the skills and abilities of each other. 

There is never a need for him to lower his energy or the energy of another man because that other man may have more material or mental success than him. A man isn't intimidated by a stronger man's presence. If he can he encourages and compliments the other man to be even greater like he does himself. 

If he shrinks from the masculinity or material possessions of another man than this reveals his own weakness, lack of confidence and insecurity. When a man sees another man undertaking a new venture, he encourages the man to continue into growth. A man knows it’s better for another man to learn from the successes and failures of his own experiences than from his advice or recommendations.

9. A Man Accepts Responsibility For Choosing His Relationships 

A man chooses his friends, lovers and associates consciously. He doesn't rush into friendships or relationships because of his initial feelings. He lets his initial feelings settle while he gives other people the time to show who they really are inside and out. A man understands that everyone wears a mask in the beginning and that mask gets lowered the more comfortable people get.  

He takes his time to feel the persons true energy to evaluate if they are beneficial or hurtful to his purpose and progress. He actively seeks out the company of people who inspire and challenge him into more growth and he avoids those who hold him back. A man doesn’t blame others for his relationship problems and he doesn't blame the woman for his choices in women. 

When a relationship is no longer compatible with his heart centered path, he initiates the break up and departs without guilt, blame or shame of himself or the other person. He holds himself solely accountable for the relationships that he allows into his life. 

He also holds others accountable for their behavior, but he holds himself accountable to tolerate such behavior around him. A man teaches others how to treat him by the quality of relationships he’s willing to allow into his life. He also refuses to fill his life with negative or destructive relationships that will only deter his focus and purpose. 

10. You are a man, without a woman

A man understands that dealing with women are only one aspect of manhood, not the only focus of a man. Finding a wife or a woman to be with is important to a man but his quality of life doesn't depend on that. He strives everyday to always be his greatest self regardless if he is in a romantic relationship or not. 

A man knows that even by excluding a woman from his life to focus on his greater goals and purpose he is still a man. His manhood is not determined or valued by how many women he's slept with or how many women's numbers he has in his phone. His manhood is determined by how much work he's put into himself, his purpose and direction in life and how much he makes sure that if he has children they are well taken care of. 

A man who can focus on himself first without the need for a woman is a master of his sexual urges and becomes stronger and more wiser in his choices of women. He then lessons the power a woman has over his life. If a man is easily weakened by the seduction of a woman he will always find himself broken hearted and disillusioned by women who have taken advantage of his sexual weaknesses. 

*This Is From The Book "How To Think Like A Man In A World Of Wimps" By The Author The Minister Of Manhood CLICK HERE For More.........

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